Some of the most common complaints of midlife that I hear are feeling tired, bloated and just a bit “off”. From both research and experience, I have found that the answer isn’t cutting calories or doing more and more workouts – so often it’s about what’s on your plate.
As we move into midlife, our nutritional needs shift dramatically. Things that might have worked for us in our 20s and 30s just don’t cut it anymore. It’s time to refocus – not necessarily on how much we’re eating, but what we’re eating.
In my opinion, nourishment, not restriction, is the key to thriving in midlife. The four most important nutrients for women navigating perimenopause and beyond are protein, fats, carbs and fibre. And the key to success is understanding why getting the right balance matters more now than ever.
1. Protein: Your Midlife Powerhouse
I like to describe protein as the scaffolding that holds your strength, energy and metabolism together.
Protein is essential in midlife for:
My tip: Aim for a palm-sized serving of protein at every meal – whether that’s eggs, chicken, fish, lentils or Greek yoghurt. Over the day you are looking for 1.2-1.6 grams of protein per kg of body weight. You can read more about this in my previous protein blog.
Did you know that the right fats support your hormones, brain, heart, and mood? Historically, fat has been unfairly vilified but in reality it really is vital.
Add a thumb-sized portion of healthy fats to your meals: olive oil, avocado, nuts, seeds, or oily fish.
3. Carbs: Fuel – Not the Enemy
Carbs are your body’s preferred energy source – they will fuel your workouts so don’t cut them out.
Carbohydrates get a bad rap, but midlife is not the time to cut them out.
Include a fist-sized serving of complex carbs with meals: quinoa, brown rice, oats, legumes or sweet potato.
4. Fibre: The Unsung Hero
Fibre is the quiet powerhouse of digestion, gut health, energy and even hormone balance.
Fibre plays multiple roles, especially in midlife:
Aim for 25–30g of fibre a day. Load up on veg, berries, legumes, seeds, and whole grains.
Bringing It All Together: A Midlife Nutrition Formula
Here’s a simple way to build meals that energise and support you, without overthinking it:
Meal Component | Example | Why It Matters |
Protein | Grilled chicken, tofu, eggs | Maintains muscle, keeps you full |
Healthy fat | Avocado, olive oil, nuts | Supports hormones, brain & skin |
Complex carbs | Brown rice, quinoa, sweet potato | Fuels workouts, stabilises energy |
Fibre | Broccoli, lentils, chia seeds | Supports digestion & blood sugar |
Colour | Leafy greens, berries, peppers | Adds vitamins, antioxidants, vibrancy! |
Real-Life Tips You Can Start Today
Final Thoughts
Food in midlife is about fuelling your life. By focusing on real nourishment, not fad diet, you give your body what it needs to thrive. Whether you’re lifting weights, chasing teenagers, starting a new career chapter or just wanting to feel more like you again – fuel matters.
As always, any questions please do get in touch.
Caroline x